Sunday, September 1, 2013

How are you a social entrepreneur?

I'm originally from San Diego. My parents moved to Cleveland when I was really young, and subsequently had the bright idea of homeschooling their three children. Did they want us all to be socially inept and bad at math for the rest of our lives? I don't have the answer to that question, but by the time 5th grade rolled around Bonnie had to call it quits on instructing her young in the arts of multiplication and Spanish as a second language, prompting the even better idea of enrolling us in private Baptist school. Are we Baptist? No. But I can tell you all about the practices of hardcore, inner-city Baptist culture: Girls aren't allowed to wear pants. Men can't wear their hair long. Only Satan listens to music with drums in it. No offense to any of my Baptist friends--this was a variety of the religion that I haven't come across since, although many of my friends identify with this religion. After 3 years of this social experiment, my mom finally decided I was weird enough to put into public school because I'd probably make lots of friends.

Because of this unorthodox childhood, I didn't get into social media until pretty late in the game. I had a Myspace until at least senior year, and I admit that with great amounts of shame. Facebook is something I didn't start using until the summer before college, and I had no idea how to navigate Twitter until the summer after my freshman year of college. If I had been asked at any of those times about being a social entrepreneur through those media outlets, I wouldn't have been able to relate to the idea. I saw social media as a basis for connecting myself to other people that I already knew, and to creep on the ones I didn't.

I've tried blogging before, but the idea has always made me uncomfortable. I don't like to think of someone peering over my shoulder and reading my thoughts- but isn't that what social media is? We post things on all of these different outlets because we want the reactions of others on things that we did, saw, thought, or created. Each time I tweet, check in on Foursquare (don't judge), or upload a photo to Facebook, I'm subconsciously thinking about the social interactions that will occur because I logged on. I might get 50 retweets (not), or a friend could simply come up to me the next day saying, "I died laughing at what you posted," or, "I totally agree." I don't know that I'm necessarily changing the world with my tweets or Instagrams, but the fact that we have an outlet to get thousands of people to pay attention to 140 characters of our thoughts instantaneously is kind of awesome. There's a trend of profiles on Twitter that can have anywhere between 400,000 and 1 million followers- variations of Common White Girl, Tweet Like a Girl, some even entitled 'no,' or 'k.' They all tweet the exact same things: "relationship status: eating" was posted more than once by every single one of these accounts, getting hundreds of favorites and retweets each time. I for one am righteously indignant and personally refuse to follow any of these accounts: a) because I'm immature. Why don't I have that many followers? b) If those 400,000 followers were being exposed to something with more substance than "if you think i'm ugly now u should have seen me in 2009," perhaps something a bit more thought-provoking could be set in motion. I'm not saying these accounts don't have a place on social media; clearly, they're very popular and get a laugh out of a lot of people. I guess my point is that I would rather be credited with getting reactions out of my followers with an original idea. In short, when I put a thought or idea out on some form of social media, and others connect with it--especially if I thought it only applied to me--that is when I feel like a social entrepreneur.

2 comments:

  1. Hi Lauren,
    I can really sympathize with you about growing up with parents who prefer to educate their children in a non-traditional way. My parents decided that my sister and I should enter the public school realm when it was time for high school. I too noticed that it made me a little bit late to the social media game, and this late entry made me also see the value of relating to my peers through ways other than those popular accounts, especially on twitter. You're post made me think about how twitter is a great place to get messages and positive social change out into the world. It's great the social media is a useful tool to have as a social entrepreneur.

    -Emma

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  2. Lauren, I seriously love your commentary on social media as a way of being a social entrepreneur. Your tweets are so relatable and hilarious... that's why I love them and you. What an idea - that if these popular Twitter accounts could spread good news or words of inspiration using their followings. Amazing.

    I had no idea you were homeschooled at an early age. I would love to talk with you sometime about your homeschooling experienced. I'm actually working on a presentation in one of my education classes on homeschool. Let's talk.

    Anyways, I loved your thoughts on what it means to be a social entrepreneur and hearing more about your childhood. You're amazing.

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